Dear Men

Dear Men,

 

Yes, it can be hard and you may have had a rough past. I get it so did I. It’s okay to engage in your hurt. You don’t have together all the time. I don’t need you to be strong I need you to be healthy and I promise you when you are healthy you will get stronger. Here are three tips to lift you up on your journey.

1. It’s okay to be vulnerable. Find someone you trust and let them know what you’re going through. The cool thing is the more you open up the more you find out you’re not alone.
2. Believe in yourself. You are amazing and have a gift to offer this world. At the end of every day, you should be able to name three things you did well. You got this, now put on that hat of confidence.
3. Know that you’re loved and cared about. Not for what you do, but for who you are.

Dear men, I’m sorry if you feel unworthy or you can’t provide, this world is tough.

Dear Millennials

Dear Millennials,

I know it’s hard, half of us come from broken homes. We tried to do what was right. We worked hard to get an education and get a good job but instead, we inherited a large sum of debt, some of us are working two jobs and had to move back in with our parents and it sucks. But remember you’re not alone, stay in the game. You’re going to make it. Here are seven tips to help you get through those rough days.

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1. If you are feeling bitter or sad. It’s okay to go through and examine your feelings. Remember mental Health is important.
2. Once you do that, get moving and keep trying. If you want to land that dream job work on that resume and keep applying.
3. Work on your craft. A lot of us nowadays have side projects. Set time aside to work on them. Who knows, in 10 years it can be your own business.
4. Find what you are passionate about and take up a hobby. This isn’t just for fun, it will also help you when you need to clear your head.
5. Find people who will be in your corner because you weren’t made to do life alone, and you need a support system.
6. Remember life isn’t the way it should be. It’s the way it is. So give yourself grace if you’re not where you want to be and destroy those should monsters.
7. Keep moving in the midst of it all. And remember, it won’t be like this forever.

Dear Women

Dear Women,

Follow your dreams because you have a gift to offer this world. What is your dream? Is it engineering, is it singing? Do you want to be a doctor.? Whatever you want to do, put in the work and watch your dreams turn into a reality. Here are some tangible steps to turn your dreams into a reality.

 

1. Take the first step. If you don’t take that step you’re never going to get there. Like Nike says just do it!
2. Create a plan, then create a timeline within the plan and work your way backwards. I can help you with this if you need it. Just shoot me an email Soulimage365@gmail.com
3. Surround yourself with like-minded people. Remember you become your environment. It is a lot easier when you are surrounded by people who are headed to the same destination as you.
4. Listen to people who inspire you. Find TED talks or motivational speakers of people who are where you want to be in life. I was listening to a podcast when I got a wind of motivation to finish this blog.
5. Invest a portion of your time and your money into your dream. When there is a price attached to something it adds value. And when there is money involved you’re more likely to invest your time because you paid for it.

Dear Women, you got this. I will be your cheerleader.